I think there’s a key difference here. I understand that “safe” drug use is absolutely prevalent in some areas of the community.
The allure is understood. To be given something that allows a deeper and more mind-numbing headspace to take you to other worlds…like anything in life, the risk has to be weighed against the reward.
I LOVE poppers. But I see them as being a safer alternative to harder drugs. Yes, that may limit the depth in which I can find a headspace. But I’d rather that than increase potential for very, very, very negative consequences when it comes to harder drug use. I do not judge nor would I ever consider myself better than anyone who does. I simply choose to find alternative ways to wrap my hole around a fist ;)
what do you like so much about being a puppy? how is it any different from being a slave?
Oh my. Well…
To be concise and to try to combine this all in one, here’s my idea of the situation.
As a sub, there are many many different ways of expression, each different and unique based upon the personality and desires of how the person is.
As a pup, the desire for me is to serve and pleased based upon a mutually affectionate but still submissive dynamic. A pup loves and desires to serve their Master because they thrive on the pleasure of the Master. Yes, that involves harshness and punishment, but it also comes with the affection and love that a Master gives a pup he owns. That’s why it fits me so well. I am a submissive, yes. But I also desire a deeper connection that includes a loving, stable, sane dynamic while still being subservient. There is an element of dehumanization in it, just as there is in a Master/slave or other type… but there is also a level of respect and acknowledgment that a Master can give to a pup to show approval and love..
I cannot speak for the slave headspace because it is not my own. But I feel like there is absolutely a different connection there. A slave serves because they are forced to, trained and punished and are broken out of fear. I think that’s the main difference, or at least from what I understand. Subservience from fear or subservience from desire.
As a bottom, what would you suggest is the best way to flush yourself out before anything anal? Trying to avoid the problem of "shit happens".
welllllll, it depends on if you’re into that stuff ;) ahah
but enemas are typically the way to go, that and not eating crazy stuff when you know you’re going to be in a bottom-ish situation. (Aka no chipotle for lunch before date night).
As far as the enemas go, there are a couple routes. There are little turkey baster type things that give you simple cheap handheld control over the water. They’re just a little frustrating because its difficult to get a more consistent flow that you need to really clear out. Other options there are bag/tube type systems that you can get from basically any pharmacy. They’re good and cheap, but again they’re not the best permanent solution. The BEST option is definitely the shower shot type kits you can get from most sex shops. I got mine from Forttroff. Easy install and awesome cleaning capabilities. Plus its more comfortable to insert and remove.
Once you choose your available method, you want to try and leave it in for a little while so it has the chance to reach the harder areas. It’ll be a little uncomfortable but you’ll clean better that way. I take in as much as I can hold and then set a timer for 3 minutes. Walk around a bit if you can.
Rinse & repeat.
Shit happens. But you can at least try to minimize the damage ;)