Of course :)
@bondage-slave-boy was here for 2 weeks and @pup-heaven is always here.
My butt is rarely lonely.
Oh? How do you know that
Much, much different question :p
I realized very young, around 7 or 8.
When did you decide to be ignorant?
GOOD LUBE! Most people try to start off with some like thin little water based lube. You’ll just end up hurting yourself. Most people at least have Crisco around the house. There are a LOT of differing opinions on it, but J-lube is my choice. It’s cheap and I mix it thick to create a nice comfortable layer.
Don’t go too fast. I know you want it and you want to make it happen, but slow, patient work is the best way to make it happen WELL.
But also don’t get frustrated with yourself if it doesn’t happen. Maybe it’ll take a couple tries, maybe 10. There are still times when my butt is like NOPE. It happens to everyone. Let yourself relax into it.
Headspace is like 90% of the battle. If you’re tense or nervous, so are your muscles. Create a comfortable environment. Take your time. Play with someone with whom you’ve built trust.
Poppers are a big help, but first and foremost remember to breathe. Feel your muscles relax and focus on the breath flowing in and out of your body.
Communicate consistently. If something is uncomfortable, tell your top. There will be some pain/discomfort, but if something is too much don’t force yourself to fight through it. Pull back a little and ease into it.
DONT PLAY WITH YOUR DICK! What you don’t realize is that when you stimulate that part, it contracts muscles in your ass. I know it’s tempting, but it’s counter productive if you want to work on getting fisted. Wear a jock or something covering it if you’re too tempted.As scary as this may sound, a little bit of blood is normal. Often times it will mix with the lube and seem like a LOT more than it actually is. Pink is okay. But that being said, be careful. Trust your body.
I’ll be doing a few videos on it here pretty soon, but that’s a good start. Hope this helps!!
Oh lord I am NOT.
I can think of tons cuter than me 😂😂😂
After lots of people asking, I’m posting a photoset of today’s play date with Noah and Oakleigh sometime tomorrow.
There’s some on my twitter now. Or just wait until then. ❤️😘
Almost 6’ (:
I shares oneeee little space pic.
😓
With some recent encouragement I think I’m going to start sharing a bit more of my AB side as well.
Would you rather me do that here or start a sub blog and share that with those who want it?
Great question. You could ask it of a hundred different people and you’d probably get a hundred different responses. For me, i embrace the following definitions for those and other frequently used terms on this blog:
As you can see, a lot of these terms overlap. One person can be several of these things at once. i, for instance, typically identify simultaneously as a sub, a faggot, a pig and a boy. And sometimes — when i have a Master — as a slave. i don’t identify as an omega or a boi, nor as a beta — although i do have strong beta tendencies, in that i take pride in my submission and reserve it for Men who i think are worthy of it.
So wear a collar! 😋 I love having mine on all the time
Pupcolin is my snap (:
Twitter, recon, fetlife, etc etc
Please!
Arouuuuuuuouuuu
Uhm… like, after I first started trying? Maybe an hour or so?
It just takes a lot of patience.
A friend of mine and I were talking about it one day. Colin came up because it has some form of meaning in scottish like Little Pup so it was fitting ^_^
Plus I just think its a cute name.
19-20 or so. I didn’t really get fully involved in the community until I was about 21. Thanks to NYC :P
Sometimes I get busy, or sometimes I take a little break from the addiction of social media to reconnect with priorities in the real world.
Dont worry, its not permanent. Plus Im still around and talking to people here just not doing a whole lot of play ^_^
I’ll see if I can get him into one soon 🙃
So I know destiny and overwatch are the current MMORPG games out there right now. Anyone playing them or any others that can convince me?
I’ve played WoW for a long time and dabbled in FFXIV I just need something new.
Gamer friends are always appreciated.
Davvify (:
We haven’t talked much about it but a pack might be fun!
PS4! (:
- What was your first thought when you woke up today?
- What are you most afraid of?
- What do you want to accomplish by your next birthday?
- If you could be famous for one thing, what would it be?
- What’s your favorite word right now and why?
- What do you love about yourself?
- What’s something that is hard for you?
- Describe your perfect day!
- Who do you know who is lonely?
- When is it hard being a friend?
- When is it hard being a little?
- Who is somebody you’d like to be friends with who isn’t yet your friend?
- If you could switch places with one person for a day, who would it be?
- How were you a helper today?
- What’s the smartest thing you heard somebody say today?
- What makes you smile?
- What’s the best thing about being a little?
- How can you change the world?
- What’s the biggest challenge facing you today?
- If somebody from another planet came to Earth, what would they think of it?
- What is something you use everyday that you do not need?
- Tell me your favorite thing you own?
- If you could give everybody in the world one piece of advice what would you say?
- If you could time travel, where would you go? What would you do?
- What is something you know how to do that you could teach others?
- What will you be doing in 10 years?
- What’s the most important choice you will have to make in your life?
- If you could only eat one food for an entire year, what would you choose?
- If you could have one superpower, what would it be and why?
- What is the best thing that has ever happened to you? What is the worst?
- If you had 3 wishes, what would they be?
- What are you most proud of?
- Who do you know who seems sad and what would you do to help?
- Who do you admire and why?
- What is something you’ve always wanted to ask me?
- What are the 3 most important qualities in a little?
- What are the 3 most important qualities in a Daddy or Mommy?
- What’s the funniest thing somebody did or said today?
- Besides your Daddy or Mommy, who is somebody you could learn from?
- What would you like to learn from them?
- Who do you know who is special? Why?
- What is the most important job in the whole world?
- If you could create one law that everybody on Earth had to follow, what would it be?
- If you could go anywhere in the world to complete a good deed, where would you go and what would you do?
- Is it better to have too much of something or not enough of something?
- Who is the most important person in the world?
- What do you want most from being a little?
- Is it possible to help somebody you’ve never met? How?
- If you could live in another country for 1 year, where would you live?
- Where would you most like your Daddy to take you and what would you do once you arrive?
(source: dapperdaddyworld.tumblr.com)
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please ask me any of these!
I love these! They challenge a little to think creatively but without pulling them from little space. Any of my followers feel free to drop some philosophic wisdom in a message! <3
I’ve done both before, yes (:
If you see two people happy in a relationship and your first thought is “hm, he’s cute how can I get him?” seriously fuck off you’re a horrible selfish prick of a manipulative asshole. Bye.