That’s the beautiful thing about dynamics: they’re dynamic. It’s a misconception about the idea of Dominant/submissive relationships, be it pups or otherwise… There is no prescribed method or mold to stick to.
We are both pups, yes. But our relationship is defined by much more than that. I am more submissive in general, and so he has stepped into a more frequently Dominant role. But just as he does that for me, I can find Dominant places in myself as well.
He’s still learning. My experience can only reach so much. So it’s a constant growth for both of us; in our own headspaces and in how we interact with eachother.
We do what makes us happy. We do what gives us the best chance to be happy together. Whatever that means in a particular moment, we figure it out together.
That’s what this entire world is about. You may be on a different place in your journey. You may have something more static and that’s totally okay. You may not know what you want, and that’s okay too.
No one should ever tell you what you have to know or feel. Find someone who makes you happy. Nothing more, nothing less.
I work in IT :)
:3 it shall happen I promise.
He’s the cutestest
Mr. S. Leather :)
Neoprene woof hood
There are photos of us around, just not on here.. Intentionally for now. If you’d like to see them just let me know and I’ll direct you to them privately 🙃
Hahaha neither of us. Hoodie is my bestie. We don’t play.
Noah is mine and I am his.
It’s a grayish area for now 😜 our relationship is so amazing and dynamic I don’t know where we’ll end up a year from now but honestly as long as I have him I’ll be happy.
I realize that doesn’t really answer your question but… It’s what I’ve got for now lol. He can answer too when he sees this lol
What has been your favorite chastity devise? My Sir is considering locking me up and he has me doing research on them.
-dtarisio Holy trainer, thus far. I wear the small version cause… Like I said before the big ones are cheating :p They don’t really stop you from getting hard… They just stop you from getting pleasure from it. Cons: You have to choose the ring size before you order. You only get one, and new ones are expensive if it doesn’t fit well. I recommend starting with the 2nd smallest one. Internal lock. It only comes with 2 keys. Pretty self explanatory. Pros: Not a ton of little parts like the CB so it’s easy to take on and off. The ring/cage make it easy to make sure you’re not pinching skin when you put it on. Smooth, virtually seamless so it doesn’t expand/pinch/crack if you get hard. Internal lock means it doesn’t click when you walk (I actually like the clicking of the CB… It reminds me that it’s there but not everyone likes it)At this point none until he decides to give them to me lol. He’s promised to edge me when I get cleaned once in awhile but he’ll most likely lock it back up before I cum anyway. :)
Hey! It’s alright. It’s tough at this point for a couple reasons. I got the small one because anyone who uses large chastity devices is cheating ;p but anyway… I got the 2nd smallest ring because otherwise stuff falls out.
The challenge is that my balls are SUPER stretchy. Most chastity devices work by pulling on them when you get hard so the pain stops you from getting hard.. But mine just pull farther than my dick anyway.
But the HT is nice either way. I’ve been wearing it for a bit now and it’s as good as a non-PA chastity device can be. There’s no seam to split like the CB has so it doesn’t pinch.
So in wearing the CB6000s and HT for a bit, they both have benefits but overall I like the HT a little more.
Ahaha ‘would’ try? I’ve tried almost everything you can possibly imagine.
I can’t say I really have contacts down there so I’m not sure of the community :/
The best thing you can do is get onto social/networking sites like recon and fetlife and find people in your area who may be able to introduce you to the community.
Or start one if there isn’t one already!
There’s kinky people everywhere, sometimes they just need a place to come together :)
*nuzzles*
Arf!
Too bad there was no puppy love for me when I lived there for the last 4 years!
Yes he is. And yes I am the luckiest :3
There are a couple videos that we miiiiight share. We’ll see 😬
Hmm. I may have met an echo… I don’t remember though. I wouldn’t know his blog sorry
Honestly? I stopped caring. The stigma of “alternative lifestyle choices” is absolutely ridiculous. Everyone has kinks. Everyone. We live in a society where openness and acceptance is preached, but this idea that anything but functionally procreative sex is taboo is a construct that can ONLY be destroyed by those of us who stop hiding. It’s not that I openly TELL those who are around me, I simply live my life in a way that makes me happy. My job cannot fire me for it. If friends leave me for it it is simply because they do not care enough about me to see me happy.
The parallels to the idea of being in the closet are honestly scary.
I don’t suggest being reckless by any means. And I am more comfortably open about it than most, I will admit. But take your own life into your hands, live in a way that makes you happy, and you will start to see yourself surrounded by people who support you for exactly who you are.
💕make me ask permission to get onto furniture or give me a special doggy bed to sit on
💕let me lick your face and wiggle my bum
💕make me eat on the floor
💕give me house rules
💕pet my head and call me a good little pup
💕put a leash on me and keep my by your side
💕take me for a walk!
💕give me cute toys to bite
💕make me crawl around on all fours
💕I just want to follow the rules and be the best puppy I can be
- Stickers
Coloring books and crayons
Craft supplies (glitter, beads, yarn, etc.)
Story books
Nail polish
Lip gloss
Cutesy bracelets
Collars
Animal ears
Tiaras
Hair bows
Cute underwear
Socks or tights
Tutus
Overalls
Onesies
Pajamas
Blankies and pillows
Stuffies
Candy
Donuts
Ice cream
Popsicles
Cookies
Bubblegum
Cookie cutters and cookie dough mix
Toy cars
Legos
Toy animals
Dolls/action figures
Puzzles
Board games
Easy bake oven
Play doh
Pacis
Bibs
Bottles/sippy cups
Cute silverware
Little meals (mac and cheese, dino nuggets, alphabet soup)
Bubble bath and bath toys
Bath bombs
Scrapbooks/journals
Letters
DVDs
Flowers
- Mix tapes
Yeah! I’ve been locked for a week now :)
Awww haha thank youuuu *nuzzles*
I 100% understand the perspective that it comes from.
I can’t say I truly understand the headspace or the dynamic of it, but the concepts are very similar. I haven’t met many people into it, and I’ve never really had an in depth conversation with any of them so I’m not really one to speak on it.
So you’ve fucked but not been fucked lol.
Yah I’m not the right person for top tips.
But if you’re a butt virgin i can help with that :p
Like… First time first time… Like… You’re a virgin?
Ummm…
You’ll feel like you have to poop desperately for the first 5 or so minutes of it. The feeling will pass you just can’t give up.
Other than thaaaat just make sure whoever you’re with is someone at least relatively special to you. It’s better with someone who cares.
Take your time and remember to breathe. It’s all about your ability to relax your muscles.
Haha it’s ok! Yes it’s a powder that you mix. It’s like $16 on Amazon and it lasts me like 6 months.
Fisting does hurt but it also feels absolutely amazing :)
J lube! Always the best :)