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Sep 22, 2016 355 notes
What advice do you have for someone that REALLY wants to fit fisted for the first time?

GOOD LUBE! Most people try to start off with some like thin little water based lube. You’ll just end up hurting yourself. Most people at least have Crisco around the house. There are a LOT of differing opinions on it, but J-lube is my choice. It’s cheap and I mix it thick to create a nice comfortable layer.

Don’t go too fast. I know you want it and you want to make it happen, but slow, patient work is the best way to make it happen WELL.

But also don’t get frustrated with yourself if it doesn’t happen. Maybe it’ll take a couple tries, maybe 10. There are still times when my butt is like NOPE. It happens to everyone. Let yourself relax into it.

Headspace is like 90% of the battle. If you’re tense or nervous, so are your muscles. Create a comfortable environment. Take your time. Play with someone with whom you’ve built trust.

Poppers are a big help, but first and foremost remember to breathe. Feel your muscles relax and focus on the breath flowing in and out of your body.

Communicate consistently. If something is uncomfortable, tell your top. There will be some pain/discomfort, but if something is too much don’t force yourself to fight through it. Pull back a little and ease into it.

DONT PLAY WITH YOUR DICK! What you don’t realize is that when you stimulate that part, it contracts muscles in your ass. I know it’s tempting, but it’s counter productive if you want to work on getting fisted. Wear a jock or something covering it if you’re too tempted.

As scary as this may sound, a little bit of blood is normal. Often times it will mix with the lube and seem like a LOT more than it actually is. Pink is okay. But that being said, be careful. Trust your body.

I’ll be doing a few videos on it here pretty soon, but that’s a good start. Hope this helps!!

Sep 21, 2016 43 notes
Whyyyyy are you the cutest pup on tumblr?!?!?!?!

Oh lord I am NOT.
I can think of tons cuter than me 😂😂😂

Sep 21, 2016 15 notes
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Sep 19, 2016 254,487 notes

After lots of people asking, I’m posting a photoset of today’s play date with Noah and Oakleigh sometime tomorrow.

There’s some on my twitter now. Or just wait until then. ❤️😘

Sep 19, 2016 21 notes
How tall are u?????

Almost 6’ (:

Sep 18, 2016 27 notes
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#me
Share it here pweese

I shares oneeee little space pic.
😓

Sep 15, 2016 17 notes
Questions for y'all:

With some recent encouragement I think I’m going to start sharing a bit more of my AB side as well.
Would you rather me do that here or start a sub blog and share that with those who want it?

Also, thinking of starting a video series on a couple of topics I haven’t seen much on (fisting essentials, lube how-to’s, pup space questions, etc.). If you have any specific ideas or just feelings about it one way or another, let me know. ❤️
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What is the difference between faggots, betas, omega boys, and bois?

Great question. You could ask it of a hundred different people and you’d probably get a hundred different responses. For me, i embrace the following definitions for those and other frequently used terms on this blog:


  • Faggot: A faggot lives to take dick. For him, cock is to be respected and revered. And, therefore, worshipped. A faggot is a vessel for cock and a receptacle for cum.
  • Pig: A pig can be a Top or a bottom. When i use the term on my blog, however, i use it exclusively for subs. To me, a pig is a class of faggot — a faggot who enjoys filth and raunch, and loves to wallow in all the various byproducts of Men’s bodies.
  • Beta: A beta is a submissive who takes pride in his submission. He doesn’t submit to just anyone; he submits to Alphas who he deems worthy of his submission. For him, it’s an honor to submit to someone who’s deserving of being submitted to, and an honor for that person to receive his submission. A beta may even be a Dom and a Top in the presence of faggots or omegas; he only submits to his Alpha.
  • Omega: While a beta submits only to a deserving Alpha, an omega submits to everyone. An omega is the most submissive person in the room, no matter who else is in that room. He will submit not only to Alphas, but also to betas and faggots, if they’ll let him. He exists to grovel and receive abuse. That’s where he feels fulfilled: under everyone else’s shoe.
  • Slave: A slave is a faggot who has entered into a formal agreement of service with a Master. He is “owned” — part time or full time, and for whatever length of time has been agreed on by him and his Master. A slave surrenders all rights and decisions under the terms of his contract and agrees to service and obey at all costs.
  • Sub: A sub is someone — usually a bottom — who embraces the act of submission. He defers to his Dom and allows his Dom to make all (or most) sexual decisions. He typically enjoys some degree of physical or verbal abuse, but it’s typically just a temporary sexual identity. His submission is generally confined to the bedroom, whereas faggots, slaves, betas, omegas, etc., typically incorporate their submission into their larger identity. For a sub, submission is an outfit they wear; for the others, it’s their skin.
  • Pup: A pup is a sub who partakes in roleplaying with a Dom, who identifies as the pup’s “handler.” Pups behave like puppies/dogs; they often wear a leash and collar, bark, wag their “tails” (which can be invisible, or physical, in the form of a pup-tail butt plug), spend time in cages/kennels, and bury their faces in their handler’s crotch. Sometimes they wear mitts as paws, and puppy masks that make them look canine. Sometimes they eat their meals out of dog bowls and go to the bathroom outside, but not always. Likewise, handlers will scratch their pup’s head, pet him, and give him praise (e.g., “Good boy!”) and punishment (e.g. a swat on the butt with a newspaper) when he deserves them. Different pups take the scene to a different level, but they all seek the same affectionate bond with their Dom that a puppy enjoys with his handler.
  • Boy: A boy can refer to the sub in a Daddy/boy relationship, which is a Dom/sub relationship where there typically is a sizable age gap between an older Dom and a younger sub. When i use it, however, i’m typically using it as a token of submission. When slavery was legal in the United States, white Masters used the term “boy” to refer to their black slaves, to indicate that they were lesser people — because a boy is less than a Man. i don’t use the term for its racial connotations, but i do use it for its Master/slave meanings.
  • Boi: A boi is a twink. A bottom, usually, who has boyish features.


As you can see, a lot of these terms overlap. One person can be several of these things at once. i, for instance, typically identify simultaneously as a sub, a faggot, a pig and a boy. And sometimes — when i have a Master — as a slave. i don’t identify as an omega or a boi, nor as a beta — although i do have strong beta tendencies, in that i take pride in my submission and reserve it for Men who i think are worthy of it.

Sep 8, 2016 2,461 notes
I like to wear a turtleneck sometimes because it feels like there is a collar around my neck at all times.

So wear a collar! 😋 I love having mine on all the time

Sep 7, 2016 13 notes
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do you have a snap? or any other social media that you share with your followers?

Pupcolin is my snap (:
Twitter, recon, fetlife, etc etc

Sep 6, 2016 8 notes
Cuddles?

Please!

Sep 1, 2016 16 notes

August 2016

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colinnnnnnnnnnn

Arouuuuuuuouuuu

Aug 24, 2016 10 notes
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how long did it take for you to be able to take a fist?

Uhm… like, after I first started trying? Maybe an hour or so?

It just takes a lot of patience.

Aug 23, 2016 21 notes
How'd you get your pup name?

A friend of mine and I were talking about it one day. Colin came up because it has some form of meaning in scottish like Little Pup so it was fitting ^_^

Plus I just think its a cute name. 

Aug 23, 2016 11 notes
how old were you when you discovered you like puppy play?

19-20 or so. I didn’t really get fully involved in the community until I was about 21. Thanks to NYC :P

Aug 23, 2016 14 notes
Why haven't you posted recently?

Sometimes I get busy, or sometimes I take a little break from the addiction of social media to reconnect with priorities in the real world. 

Dont worry, its not permanent. Plus Im still around and talking to people here just not doing a whole lot of play ^_^

Aug 23, 2016 5 notes
Aug 20, 2016 843 notes

July 2016

Can we see Noah in a diaper????

I’ll see if I can get him into one soon 🙃

Jul 27, 2016 20 notes

So I know destiny and overwatch are the current MMORPG games out there right now. Anyone playing them or any others that can convince me?
I’ve played WoW for a long time and dabbled in FFXIV I just need something new.
Gamer friends are always appreciated.

Jul 25, 2016 22 notes
PS4! What's your PSN name?

Davvify (:

Jul 24, 2016 7 notes
Would you boys ever consider taking a mutual beta. To fuck, fist, and use. (He comes with a PA for extra fun in chastity)

We haven’t talked much about it but a pack might be fun!

Jul 24, 2016 9 notes
Do you play ps4/xbox1

PS4! (:

Jul 24, 2016 4 notes
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#me #pupcolin #pupnoah #pup-heaven
Questions To Ask Your Little

thedaddydiaries:

littlestian:

dominantlife:

  1. What was your first thought when you woke up today?
  2. What are you most afraid of?
  3. What do you want to accomplish by your next birthday?
  4. If you could be famous for one thing, what would it be?
  5. What’s your favorite word right now and why?
  6. What do you love about yourself?
  7. What’s something that is hard for you?
  8. Describe your perfect day!
  9. Who do you know who is lonely?
  10. When is it hard being a friend?
  11. When is it hard being a little?
  12. Who is somebody you’d like to be friends with who isn’t yet your friend?
  13. If you could switch places with one person for a day, who would it be?
  14. How were you a helper today?
  15. What’s the smartest thing you heard somebody say today?
  16. What makes you smile?
  17. What’s the best thing about being a little?
  18. How can you change the world?
  19. What’s the biggest challenge facing you today?
  20. If somebody from another planet came to Earth, what would they think of it?
  21. What is something you use everyday that you do not need?
  22. Tell me your favorite thing you own?
  23. If you could give everybody in the world one piece of advice what would you say?
  24. If you could time travel, where would you go? What would you do?
  25. What is something you know how to do that you could teach others?
  26. What will you be doing in 10 years?
  27. What’s the most important choice you will have to make in your life?
  28. If you could only eat one food for an entire year, what would you choose?
  29. If you could have one superpower, what would it be and why?
  30. What is the best thing that has ever happened to you? What is the worst?
  31. If you had 3 wishes, what would they be?
  32. What are you most proud of?
  33. Who do you know who seems sad and what would you do to help?
  34. Who do you admire and why?
  35. What is something you’ve always wanted to ask me?
  36. What are the 3 most important qualities in a little?
  37. What are the 3 most important qualities in a Daddy or Mommy?
  38. What’s the funniest thing somebody did or said today?
  39. Besides your Daddy or Mommy, who is somebody you could learn from?
  40. What would you like to learn from them?
  41. Who do you know who is special? Why?
  42. What is the most important job in the whole world?
  43. If you could create one law that everybody on Earth had to follow, what would it be?
  44. If you could go anywhere in the world to complete a good deed, where would you go and what would you do?
  45. Is it better to have too much of something or not enough of something?
  46. Who is the most important person in the world?
  47. What do you want most from being a little?
  48. Is it possible to help somebody you’ve never met? How?
  49. If you could live in another country for 1 year, where would you live?
  50. Where would you most like your Daddy to take you and what would you do once you arrive?

(source: dapperdaddyworld.tumblr.com)

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more articles in the Library For Kinksters.

please ask me any of these!

I love these! They challenge a little to think creatively but without pulling them from little space. Any of my followers feel free to drop some philosophic wisdom in a message! <3

Jul 13, 2016 4,456 notes
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Do you wet and mess your diapers

I’ve done both before, yes (:

Jul 11, 2016 18 notes

If you see two people happy in a relationship and your first thought is “hm, he’s cute how can I get him?” seriously fuck off you’re a horrible selfish prick of a manipulative asshole. Bye.

Jul 11, 2016 48 notes
please read.

trikoot:

ultracollared:

To my fellow subs, pups, and slaves, gimps, furries, kinksters, and littles; to any identity you claim or feel or discover:

You may not need to hear these words, but there are far too many out there who run headlong into this world without any understanding. I may be reiterating things that have been said a thousand times in more coherent and eloquent ways. But too often I see or console or offer advice to those who have learned these lessons through experiences that I don’t want to imagine.

This isn’t exhaustive, and you may not agree with every one of them. These ideas do not come from a place of selfishness. They apply whether or not you identify as submissive, Dominant, or anywhere in between. It is not meant to inspire fear or cynicism. It is not meant to create self-doubt or generalize “Dominance” as heartless and uneducated. These ideas come from a place of self-love and self respect. If you have a problem with that, you have no place in my world.

If you can take one thing from it, whether validation of your own knowledge, or a deeper understanding of yourself, please know that you don’t have to face any of it alone.

In this, the “Dominant” is in general reference of any identity therein (whether Sir, Master, Handler, etc.)

—


Take the time to learn yourself before you allow others to control you.
Whether you’re just discovering your submissive identity, or you’re a pro, you can always benefit from introspection. Your relationship with a Dominant is only made stronger with a better understanding of yourself and your needs.


No one is ever entitled to your submission.
I’ll say that again: NO ONE IS EVER ENTITLED TO YOUR SUBMISSION. Anyone who approaches you with the idea that they deserve you without so much as a conversation should be avoided. It is in your best interest to protect yourself, regardless of how exciting and enticing it may be to have someone assert such control.


Seek your community.
Whether its a local one, or something you find online, seek out a community of like minded people. Not only will this give you an opportunity to meet and befriend others who understand you, it is also for your protection. Your community is your safe place. We take care of our own.


Make friends with other submissives.
We understand each other better than most. You know things I don’t. Seek advice and care from others without an ulterior motive. I may not be able to tell you what to do, but I can always try to help.


Communication is everything.
Seek a method of feedback that your Dominant can respect, whether positive or constructive. Anyone who assumes they know everything or can do no wrong is too insecure to admit their own flaws. Safe words are great, but that will only get you so far. You know what enhances or pulls you out of your headspace. Tell them.


Consideration periods are not simply to determine “whether you’re good enough” or “whether you deserve” something.
They are an opportunity for you to examine your own compatibility and headspace prior to engaging in commitment. They are one of the best tools you have to truly put yourself into a healthy and engaging environment. If it doesn’t work, speak up.


You always have the right to leave.
Pretty damn self explanatory.


Make sure you understand YOUR limits.
To push through them is one thing, but you need to understand that too far can be too far. Learn how to say no in a way that enhances your relationship and mutual understanding. And if that isn’t respected? You always have the right to leave.


You deserve respect, too.
It may be shown in different ways. You may like to be called horrible names and treated like dirt. But unless you’ve gotten to the point where you feel safe in that space, don’t let someone walk all over you, regardless of their assumed Dominance.


Take. Your. Time.
Especially for those newer to discovering their submissive headspace, every person who validates that headspace will seem good to you. Just because someone offers you a collar does not mean you take it. Be careful. Ownership is first and foremost about trust. I understand the need; its an innate desire to give up control to the first person who tries to take it from you. But submission is not taken, it is earned. Give yourself the time and make sure their investment in you is equal to your investment in them.


If you need a break, take one.
Sometimes you just need to give yourself an opportunity to refocus. Take a step back from all of it and breathe without fear of control or retribution. Have the self awareness to know when you need it.


Explore what you feel.
Don’t let yourself be defined by an expectation or ideal. If you don’t feel completely submissive, or completely Dominant, that’s okay. Give yourself the opportunity to explore those feelings. It may change on any given day or hour or minute. Surround yourself with those who will allow you to grow.


Headspace isn’t about losing yourself.
It’s a place that’s meant to allow you to let go. Sometimes it’s hard to find, and that’s okay. Don’t force it. Your headspace should be as unique as you. Allow the pieces of you that you love to shine through it.


Not all headspace is sexual.
Never feel like where you go in that place must be accompanied with BDSM. If your headspace needs to be a safe place for you, let it. Many use it as a coping mechanism for anxiety and depression and these triggers can not only be upsetting but dangerous. Never, ever assume anything without knowing someone. Care before control.


Look out for each other.
Know the signs of someone who needs help. They may not ask for it, but make sure those around you know that you’re looking out for them. There can be a very fine line between BDSM and abusive relationships. You may not be able to fix it, but the love you show someone may have a bigger impact than you think.

—

If you have more to contribute, please do. I don’t expect this to be exhaustive, I want to give people an opportunity to think and respond and create healthy dialogue around a part of “us” that is too often silenced by passivity.

Please, please share this with everyone you can.

And as always, if you need anything, please reach out to someone. I’m always here.

nuzzles

pup Colin

I’m reblogging this not because I agree or disagree with the advice given here, but because it fails to address one huge factor affecting almost all situations described here. And here it is: you should never, ever practice BDSM in any form to make up for challenges that you have in your personal life. If you have self-confidence issues and want someone to take command, don’t be a sub. If you are frustrated at work because you’re being bossed around, don’t be a dom to boss other people around. This is important, because BDSM is by definition sexual, and if you want to submit just to get to a safe place in your mind, seek professional help.

Respectfully, your response is precisely why I wrote the post in the first place. The perspective you have is harmful. BDSM is sexual. But submission and BDSM, while often related, are not always practiced together. That is VERY important and I made that clear as part of the post. YOUR headspace, YOUR methods of this are clearly different than others. I’m not saying that your dynamic is wrong. But - and this is VERY important - people DO use it as a coping mechanism. And whether you believe that to be helpful to YOU is literally irrelevant. I would rather someone find a safe place within our community and have that place respected than them be forced to cope with it in unhealthy ways. To apply a blanket statement that their only course of action is to “seek professional help” is so unbelievably close minded and wrong. What you wrote is poisonous to the people who may read it. I will not ask you to delete it, but I also will not allow it to go unanswered.

TL;DR your assertion that submission equates to participation in BDSM is utterly wrong. Your headspace is your own. And while I absolutely advocate for seeking help for EVERYONE, whether struggling with psychological disorders or not, I will never, ever question the reason for anyone’s headspace. You would do well to understand the same.

Jul 4, 2016 2,883 notes
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Jul 2, 2016 84 notes
please read.

To my fellow subs, pups, and slaves, gimps, furries, kinksters, and littles; to any identity you claim or feel or discover:

You may not need to hear these words, but there are far too many out there who run headlong into this world without any understanding. I may be reiterating things that have been said a thousand times in more coherent and eloquent ways. But too often I see or console or offer advice to those who have learned these lessons through experiences that I don’t want to imagine.

This isn’t exhaustive, and you may not agree with every one of them. These ideas do not come from a place of selfishness. They apply whether or not you identify as submissive, Dominant, or anywhere in between. It is not meant to inspire fear or cynicism. It is not meant to create self-doubt or generalize “Dominance” as heartless and uneducated. These ideas come from a place of self-love and self respect. If you have a problem with that, you have no place in my world.

If you can take one thing from it, whether validation of your own knowledge, or a deeper understanding of yourself, please know that you don’t have to face any of it alone.

In this, the “Dominant” is in general reference of any identity therein (whether Sir, Master, Handler, etc.)

—


Take the time to learn yourself before you allow others to control you.
Whether you’re just discovering your submissive identity, or you’re a pro, you can always benefit from introspection. Your relationship with a Dominant is only made stronger with a better understanding of yourself and your needs.


No one is ever entitled to your submission.
I’ll say that again: NO ONE IS EVER ENTITLED TO YOUR SUBMISSION. Anyone who approaches you with the idea that they deserve you without so much as a conversation should be avoided. It is in your best interest to protect yourself, regardless of how exciting and enticing it may be to have someone assert such control.


Seek your community.
Whether its a local one, or something you find online, seek out a community of like minded people. Not only will this give you an opportunity to meet and befriend others who understand you, it is also for your protection. Your community is your safe place. We take care of our own.


Make friends with other submissives.
We understand each other better than most. You know things I don’t. Seek advice and care from others without an ulterior motive. I may not be able to tell you what to do, but I can always try to help.


Communication is everything.
Seek a method of feedback that your Dominant can respect, whether positive or constructive. Anyone who assumes they know everything or can do no wrong is too insecure to admit their own flaws. Safe words are great, but that will only get you so far. You know what enhances or pulls you out of your headspace. Tell them.


Consideration periods are not simply to determine “whether you’re good enough” or “whether you deserve” something.
They are an opportunity for you to examine your own compatibility and headspace prior to engaging in commitment. They are one of the best tools you have to truly put yourself into a healthy and engaging environment. If it doesn’t work, speak up.


You always have the right to leave.
Pretty damn self explanatory.


Make sure you understand YOUR limits.
To push through them is one thing, but you need to understand that too far can be too far. Learn how to say no in a way that enhances your relationship and mutual understanding. And if that isn’t respected? You always have the right to leave.


You deserve respect, too.
It may be shown in different ways. You may like to be called horrible names and treated like dirt. But unless you’ve gotten to the point where you feel safe in that space, don’t let someone walk all over you, regardless of their assumed Dominance.


Take. Your. Time.
Especially for those newer to discovering their submissive headspace, every person who validates that headspace will seem good to you. Just because someone offers you a collar does not mean you take it. Be careful. Ownership is first and foremost about trust. I understand the need; its an innate desire to give up control to the first person who tries to take it from you. But submission is not taken, it is earned. Give yourself the time and make sure their investment in you is equal to your investment in them.


If you need a break, take one.
Sometimes you just need to give yourself an opportunity to refocus. Take a step back from all of it and breathe without fear of control or retribution. Have the self awareness to know when you need it.


Explore what you feel.
Don’t let yourself be defined by an expectation or ideal. If you don’t feel completely submissive, or completely Dominant, that’s okay. Give yourself the opportunity to explore those feelings. It may change on any given day or hour or minute. Surround yourself with those who will allow you to grow.


Headspace isn’t about losing yourself.
It’s a place that’s meant to allow you to let go. Sometimes it’s hard to find, and that’s okay. Don’t force it. Your headspace should be as unique as you. Allow the pieces of you that you love to shine through it.


Not all headspace is sexual.
Never feel like where you go in that place must be accompanied with BDSM. If your headspace needs to be a safe place for you, let it. Many use it as a coping mechanism for anxiety and depression and these triggers can not only be upsetting but dangerous. Never, ever assume anything without knowing someone. Care before control.


Look out for each other.
Know the signs of someone who needs help. They may not ask for it, but make sure those around you know that you’re looking out for them. There can be a very fine line between BDSM and abusive relationships. You may not be able to fix it, but the love you show someone may have a bigger impact than you think.

—

If you have more to contribute, please do. I don’t expect this to be exhaustive, I want to give people an opportunity to think and respond and create healthy dialogue around a part of “us” that is too often silenced by passivity.

Please, please share this with everyone you can.

And as always, if you need anything, please reach out to someone. I’m always here.

nuzzles

pup Colin

Jul 1, 2016 2,883 notes
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