There’s not a whole lot of work involved other than just playing regularly. Rosebudding happens when you push out your hole.
I want to be known as someone who’s full of love and radiates light
Yeah :) its top on my priority list next time Noah and I are together!
I think so :p
Whenever it’s there it’s covered in jlube so i dont blame him for not sticking his face in it 😂😂
To get to the point where you rosebud or prolapse takes intentional hard work. Fisting without the goal of a ruined hole really isn’t going to innately ruin your hole unless you do it for a long time. Ive been doing it for awhile and I have somewhat of a rose, but nowhere near prolapse.
Haha gain from it? It just feels really really good, regardless of other things. I find it to be such an intimate and romantic thing to share with someone as well. Plus it’s fun to have something to work towards; taking bigger and bigger things. The ruined hole part is a fun side effect 😏
So the video /finally/ posted to my xtube. Go watch and enjoy and let me know what you think!!
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Yeah something must’ve gone wrong. I’ll check on it when I get home 😝
I haven’t yet :(
But I really wanna go sometime
Small of course :)
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Yeah it’s still processing. Should be soon. 😘
Here’s hoping that comes true for you!!! ☺️
We don’t :)
Potentially (:
He seems to be more inclined to the caretaker role, partly because I’m not much of one haha.
But we may have some little time together. Just gotta find someone to help us 😁
They’ll happennnnn I promise ☺️☺️☺️
I just got a case of them for Christmas.
Yes for sure! That’s one of my goals for this year.
More little time!!!!
I have a bit, though not much. Noah has taken to punching it pretty hard when he fists me now though. 😍
Which one? Both of our hoods are from Mr S
Yeah! We’re planning on doing it next summer when we get home from England ☺️
Hey! Thank you :) I’m glad you like it.
That’s a tough one. It’s hard to inspire someone to be into something without feeling like it becomes contrived. The best advice I can give is honestly to try and communicate why YOU like it, what it makes you feel, how it makes you feel. Talk to him about it. If he can understand the happiness and freedom it gives you, I think that’s the best way to help someone fall into the caretaker role more easily.
Just start with little things (heh, pun not intended): have a paci or two around. If you’re just cuddling and watching tv or whatever, just use it. One, it will make you happy and give you some headspace but as well as being around him in that space in a more “passive” sense. Something like a paci or drinking out of a sippy cup doesn’t require effort or understanding on his part, but it allows him to see you and be around you in that space. Once he can see and feel a little more comfortable with it, as well as see you in a happy place, you’ll hopefully see a little more active effort on his part. I mean, who can resist the look in the eyes of a little when you get his paci for him. 😀
As far as helping with YOUR headspace, that’s a bit easier. I’m going to post my list of little space happy things. You make like some of them, you may not. But these are what help me.
(Copied from my D-B profile in case you’ve seen it before)
| Little Space Triggers / Keys to My Heart |
• Pet names (these and more)
- little guy
- tiger
- baby boy
- princess
- little one
- sport
• Spontaneous encouragement / regression
- ordering for me at restaurants
- diaper checks
- hair playing
- rules
- big boy decisions
• Encouraging or possessive phrases
- “I’m proud of you buddy”
- “Such a big boy”
- “My little one”
- “You’re safe with me”
• Sippy cups / bottles
• Little boy meals
- PB&J
- Chicken nuggets
- Grilled cheese
- Chocolate milk
• Regression in public/around others
[ It’s not about humiliation for me. Rather in more public situations, the regression in headspace feels more real. ]
- Wearing/using in public
- 24/7
- Little clothes / sissification
- Hand holding
- Diaper changes
- Social outings with other daddies
| Little Activities |
• Coloring books
• Cartoons
• Zoo
• Toy/plushie store
• Pet store/animal shelter
• Bedtime stories
• Cuddling
• Companion on adult adventures (errands, groceries, shopping)
• Amusement park
• Baking
The most important part about it is finding YOUR happy place. Even little triggers that you can do alone. Little space is supposed to be this warm happy snuggly self-assured place. Let it be. and don’t worry if you can’t find it right away. It will come :)
Doubt it