Potentially (:
He seems to be more inclined to the caretaker role, partly because I’m not much of one haha.
But we may have some little time together. Just gotta find someone to help us 😁
They’ll happennnnn I promise ☺️☺️☺️
I just got a case of them for Christmas.
Yes for sure! That’s one of my goals for this year.
More little time!!!!
I have a bit, though not much. Noah has taken to punching it pretty hard when he fists me now though. 😍
Which one? Both of our hoods are from Mr S
Yeah! We’re planning on doing it next summer when we get home from England ☺️
Hey! Thank you :) I’m glad you like it.
That’s a tough one. It’s hard to inspire someone to be into something without feeling like it becomes contrived. The best advice I can give is honestly to try and communicate why YOU like it, what it makes you feel, how it makes you feel. Talk to him about it. If he can understand the happiness and freedom it gives you, I think that’s the best way to help someone fall into the caretaker role more easily.
Just start with little things (heh, pun not intended): have a paci or two around. If you’re just cuddling and watching tv or whatever, just use it. One, it will make you happy and give you some headspace but as well as being around him in that space in a more “passive” sense. Something like a paci or drinking out of a sippy cup doesn’t require effort or understanding on his part, but it allows him to see you and be around you in that space. Once he can see and feel a little more comfortable with it, as well as see you in a happy place, you’ll hopefully see a little more active effort on his part. I mean, who can resist the look in the eyes of a little when you get his paci for him. 😀
As far as helping with YOUR headspace, that’s a bit easier. I’m going to post my list of little space happy things. You make like some of them, you may not. But these are what help me.
(Copied from my D-B profile in case you’ve seen it before)
| Little Space Triggers / Keys to My Heart |
• Pet names (these and more)
- little guy
- tiger
- baby boy
- princess
- little one
- sport
• Spontaneous encouragement / regression
- ordering for me at restaurants
- diaper checks
- hair playing
- rules
- big boy decisions
• Encouraging or possessive phrases
- “I’m proud of you buddy”
- “Such a big boy”
- “My little one”
- “You’re safe with me”
• Sippy cups / bottles
• Little boy meals
- PB&J
- Chicken nuggets
- Grilled cheese
- Chocolate milk
• Regression in public/around others
[ It’s not about humiliation for me. Rather in more public situations, the regression in headspace feels more real. ]
- Wearing/using in public
- 24/7
- Little clothes / sissification
- Hand holding
- Diaper changes
- Social outings with other daddies
| Little Activities |
• Coloring books
• Cartoons
• Zoo
• Toy/plushie store
• Pet store/animal shelter
• Bedtime stories
• Cuddling
• Companion on adult adventures (errands, groceries, shopping)
• Amusement park
• Baking
The most important part about it is finding YOUR happy place. Even little triggers that you can do alone. Little space is supposed to be this warm happy snuggly self-assured place. Let it be. and don’t worry if you can’t find it right away. It will come :)
Doubt it
Ohhhh gosh. I’ll do my best.
-Fisting
-Puppy play (also other forms of D/s and role play, but primarily puppy)
-ABDL (primarily AB; regression, caretaking, etc)
-Bondage (rope, metal, etc)
-Toys (especially big ones 😈)
-CBT
-Breath play
-Groups/exhibition
-Watersports
-Electro/estim
-Milking
-Impact/pain (spanking, flogging, punching, etc)
-Rubber (full enclosure)
-Leather
-All manner of other gear (neoprene, lycra, sports, etc)
There’s probably more but that’s a fairly exhaustive list :)
He’s been hiding 🙁
Noah has been very busy and I’ve been working like crazy. But this holiday will be a week for us to just be together and there will be lots of little time!!!
Aw thank you!!
As far as what we enjoy about pup play.. that’s a fairly open ended question but I’ll do my best haha.
Really I think the biggest draw is that it is an outlet for a submissive space that allows for an innate affectionate and care dynamic. He and I exist, first and foremost, on a romantic level. From there, it lets us learn and explore and be playful and enjoy the freedom that we find in a pup headspace (as well as the occasional whimper 😏). Learning about someone on such a deep level takes time and patience and a true connection. Sharing that space together is a catalyst for that learning and the way we feel about each other.
Obviously that’s a bit more of an emotional response. If you’re looking for something more physical, I’d say that I enjoy the primal nature of it. The submissive space for me thrives in being able to let go and focus on pleasing someone. There’s an indescribable feeling when you look up and see smiling and proud eyes of someone who controls you. The desire to please, the desire to see them happy; it opens up an entirely new world of activity and trust that may not exist in a less comfortable connection. And knowing they feel the same when they look and see your eyes in the same way.
As far as a advice for a new pup or those wanting to explore more, there’s a lot to say certainly. Reach out to people in the community; find people around you, go to events, etc. Even if you don’t feel comfortable “being” in that space, you can be around people that are. That, more than anything else, was a big motivator for me in finding my place. It’s a constant journey but learning I could love myself in seeing others do and be the same was invaluable.
Understanding there are people that don’t have access to that or don’t feel comfortable in reaching out or jumping into a social setting for whatever reason it may be, then just give yourself some time. Close your eyes and feel what it’s like to let go of the burden of existential thought. Be playful. Jump around your bed. Wag your butt. Chew on a sock. Before you know it you’ll find yourself smiling at the freedom of it all. And that’s just the beginning!
Usually 3-4 times a week, depending on our schedules.
I haven’t yet! But I’ve been in talks with a couple studios :) 2017 is gonna be a good year 😈
I need more Noah in MY life 😂
The real world sucks. Can we just cuddle forever?
It’s not online quite yet. I haven’t received info on the time table yet. Judging by past shoot/edit times I’m guessing February or so, but I’ll certainly keep you updated if I hear anything!
there are people you haven’t met yet who will love you
Yes I’m aware. He’s fine, just has taken a break from social media. Goodness knows we could all use one sometimes.