growingcub said:
If an dom trys to keep you away from any one of these ideas his being abusive and dosnt truly care about you. You need to get away fast, even if you think that’s the kind of relationship you want it’s still wrong. A real BDSM or D/s relationship is built on these foundations, and than the things you like can be built around this but it can work with starting here with ever one of those ideas