Pup Colin
Dirty is a relative term. I prefer adventurous.
Haha yes it has quite a few times 😈
No pics that I know of though
For someone who is really intrigued by BDSM but doesn't own any sex toys yet, what 3 must-have ones do you recommend to start their collection?
Good question! To really be able to answer that well I’d need to know a bit more about your specific interests- BDSM is a very, very broad range of activities. But if I had to answer in as general terms as possible:
1. An underbed bondage strap system.
These are a good, cheap, easy way to begin exploring restraints/immobilization. Usually I don’t recommend buying inexpensive gear (you get what you pay for- ESPECIALLY not for ass play- cheap materials break down quickly and can be dangerous) but in this case, expensive really isn’t necessary. Rope bondage is great but can be very complicated and time consuming to learn. These straps are easy to put in (just put it under your mattress) and easy to use- typically Velcro- while still being effective.
Example:
https://www.boyzshop.com/beginner-fleece-bed-restraints-kit_3518.html
2. A simple collar.
My first collar was plain black leather with a fleece lining. Whether or not you’re interested in jumping straight into a slave/pup/boy/etc role, a collar is an easy way to catalyze submissive headspace. Even the act of feeling someone put it on is a great trigger for me. From there, using it as a tool to maintain that headspace is pretty easy. Give it a little tug here and there until you’re able to gauge your comfort level. Adding a leash is a great thing too. But - and this is vital - make SURE that you communicate with your Dom/sub, especially at first. If the collar is too tight, tell them. It’s not fun to get light headed and pass out during a scene when you’re not prepared for it.
3. Blindfolds/gags.
To be completely honest, I always find using things you already have to be better than store bought stuff. Tying a nice long athletic sock works great as a blindfold (bonus points if it’s been worn for awhile), and underwear shoved in your mouth as a gag is amazing on a lot of levels. But there are definitely lots of retail ones out there, too.
If you need other recommendations, definitely let me know!!
I haven’t really gotten much new gear recently?
How do I get my hole to stay permanently loose and sloppy? 23yo just starting out with fisting. 😈💦
Regular practice! Get a plug and wear it often and for longer periods of time.
I believe so? More often than not orgasms for me involve getting large toys up my ass or my balls getting hit lol
Yes and yes lol. When he and I are watching tv I’ll just stick my dick in him and piss. It happens pretty often 😋
Specifically? No. But it has to be someone we know well and have been friends with.
Without. If there’s lube on my dick I either can’t stay hard or it takes FOREVER for me to cum.
?? Yes haha. The pictures of us are all tagged with his blog 😂