Hey :) Welcome to the club ^_^
There is a lot of the community that is centered around gay males, but it is by no means exclusive. I don’t really have an answer to how to find what you’re looking for. I wouldn’t be disgusted by it, so I feel like its just a matter of putting yourself out there a bit. You certainly won’t find anything if you dont look, you know? I’m always here to talk if you need.