Posted on August 28, 2015
Anonymous asked:
Hey, love your blog. I'm new to the bdsm scene and a I guy I'm talking to/kind of seeing mentioned being a pup. i want to explore that with him. What would be the best way to do that?
Talk about it. It doesn’t take a lot of complicated gear or anything. Just play around a little. Get him on his hands and knees. Play with him like a puppy. Scratch his ears. Tell him to roll over. Just little cute things like that. Start experiencing the headspace before you incorporate the BDSM aspect of it. The affectionate and understanding side of the dynamic is just as (if not more) important than the Dominant/submissive. Build trust. Then start to get deeper into it.