Posted on May 19, 2016

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Yup in 8 days it's a gathering of the pretentious kinksters and their little high school clicks.

I will not disagree that large communities have a tendency to create this idea of ‘cliques’, but that’s more of a result of the human condition than it is of ‘pretentious kinksters’. We gravitate toward people who are like-minded and enjoy the same things. There are a lot of us who are very open and welcoming, far more than a lot of other communities that I know.
Your statement is evident of some deep seeded resentment, so I’m not going to try to convince you otherwise. But just know that whatever experience led you to create such a generalized negative view is disappointing and wrong.
To anyone who is new to the community or feels left out, just know that there’s always a place. It may be difficult to find sometimes, but giving up on it isn’t going to help.
IML (and events in general) are really, really cool experiences that let you see that what you are, do, and enjoy is not something to be ashamed of, but something to celebrate.

Noah and I will be there all weekend, so if you’re around, please come say hi. ❤️

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