Awh well thank you, I’m happy you see me that way :)
As far as finding a Dom, it’s really about giving yourself the opportunity to connect with people in the community, as well as understanding your headspace and what you need. It will be much easier to navigate through potential opportunities if you can gauge your compatibility in the dynamic.
Places like Recon, fetlife, Scruff, etc. will give you the best visibility as a sub :)