Heh a) introduce me to this person 😏
b) obviously it’s a BIG decision to make, and it should sure as hell be made with someone who you have a real, solid connection with (not a handler you just met). In my perspective it is one of the most ultimate forms of submission possible as it quite literally changes your life and brain chemistry, just as it does in biopups. It is something that needs to be given to someone ONLY if/when you are ready.
To most simply the idea that it *could* happen is a useful tool. Using things like an elastrator/bander to simulate it can be as effective temporarily to create the sensations that are associated with it, without any permanence.
Examine your own perspective first. Yes, the idea of it is exciting because it is dehumanizing- it blurs the line between your humanity and the regressive headspace. Yes, the physical act is extremely exciting because it can be beautiful and intimate to give yourself so completely to someone who will care for you. But also carefully consider and research the effects that will occur after.
I’m more than happy to talk to you more about it in more specific terms if you can message me off anon. ☺️